truths you realize after turning 30psychology & behavior•3w ago

you come face to face with the fact that life isn’t always rosy. you learn that the things you used to say “that’ll never happen to me” about can one day come knocking on your door. you realize that even the life you trust the most can fall apart in an instant, and sometimes you might have to start from zero. and the most critical point: at the end of the day, when everyone disperses and goes back to their own lives, the only thing a person is left with is themselves. instead of waiting for a savior, you learn how to pull yourself together on your own.